The Power of the Priesthood

Class discussion changed directions just slightly from talking about marriage in general and what it means in terms of eternity, to the roles of men and women—husbands and wives. These topics are very interesting and I think it’s very helpful to talk about them. Over the years we are filled with stereotypes and opinions, but when it comes down to it, it’s nice to hear once again what church authorities have to say about these roles. I also find it very encouraging. Someday I will be a wife and a mother and there is nothing I want more than to have a household full of love and comfort and of activity.

I love that it has been said that the roles of men and women are of “divine design.” This illustrates not only the duty of each, but also the guidance and responsibility given by our Heavenly Father. I feel so much confidence from this.

Another thought from class that I really appreciate is that of “creating a marital identity.” To me, this means truly and anxiously working with your spouse to create a relationship—and ultimately a home—built on the values and goals you decide as a couple. Some of the importance aspects of a marriage and of a family that I am excited to determine with my future spouse are “nurturing the sacredness in your marriage”—meaning being obedient and setting goals to increase spirituality and to increase how much the Lord is in our lives. Also, I love the fact that as a husband and wife, we are entitled to revelation pertaining specifically to our family. What a blessing to have the Lord lead and guide a relationship.

In terms of men and the responsibility and authority they have in the family, thinking of the difference between the word “preside” in terms of the church is different than the way a husband should “preside” in the home. Personally, as a woman in the church, I am extremely comforted and excited to one day have a husband who worthily holds the priesthood and has the authority to preside and protect our family. I remember an experience from years ago when I first received a testimony of the priesthood. We were part of a “trek” Youth Conference one summer a few years ago. The guys were called away and just the five or six of us girls in our group were left to pull our heavy handcart along a lengthy trail and up over a small hill. The task was extremely difficult for us girls, yet we persisted. As we came over the crest of the hill, all of the young men from the entire conference lined the trail on either side, standing silently and reverently. Walking between rows of men, I felt the spirit of the priesthood. I felt like their comfort encouraged us to come to the end of our trail. I had never felt so strongly the real power of the priesthood. I admire men for holding such power and for being worthy to do so. They are a blessing in the lives of women.